Choose the tools that meet your family where you are.
Every kit teaches the same identity first skills. The difference is how much you want to assemble yourself and how you want to start.
MOST COMPLETE
Full Home Kit
Everything you need to turn daily moments into identity building practice. This kit arrives ready to use with zero assembly required.
What's Included
Emotion flashcards (30 cards sized for toddler hands)
Mood board with mood strip, child figure and card holder
Visual routine chart and cards for daily transitions
Calming tools (pinwheel, sensory items)
Parent Guidebook (60+ pages)
Curriculum Activity Book organized by age and weekly themes
Storage box to keep everything organized
Who It's For
Families with kids 18 to 48 months who want a complete system. Parents who never learned these skills themselves and want to learn alongside their child. Anyone ready to break generational cycles of emotional illiteracy.
What It Teaches
Families with kids 18 to 48 months who want a complete system. Parents who never learned these skills themselves and want to learn alongside their child. Anyone ready to break generational cycles of emotional illiteracy.
From the Classroom
I watched a three year old use the emotion cards to tell his dad "I feel frustrated because I wanted more time" instead of throwing the toy across the room. That is what this kit makes possible. Clear voice instead of big reaction.
$85 $125
Feelings First: DIY Home Kit
Same identity first framework with the satisfaction of building some pieces yourself. Perfect for families who like projects or need a more accessible entry point.
What's Included
Printable emotion flashcard templates (you print and laminate)
Mood board template and assembly guide
DIY calming tool instructions with supply list
Complete Parent Guidebook (same 60+ pages as Full Kit)
Complete Curriculum Activity Book
Video tutorials for assembly
Digital access to all materials
Who It's For
Families who enjoy hands-on projects. Parents who want the training and framework but prefer to create the physical tools themselves. Budget conscious families who still want the complete system.
What It Teaches
The same emotional skills as the Full Kit. Your child still learns to name feelings, process emotions and hold boundaries. The only difference is you assemble some tools using our templates and guides.
What You’ll Need
Basic craft supplies (cardstock, laminator or contact paper, scissors, glue). We provide the full supply list and links to affordable options. Most families spend $20-30 on supplies.
$20 $45
START SMALL
Mini Kits
Not ready for the full system? Start with one piece and add more as you see what works for your family.
Available Kits
Start with emotional Language
Emotion Card Deck $29
30 cards with feelings and body cues. Helps kids name what they feel.
Add regulation
Mood Board $65
Visual tool that shows kids how they move from overwhelmed to calm. Regulation is not magic. It is a process they can see and trust.
Includes board, strips, and magnets.
Building self-advocacy
Calming Tools Bundle $34
Pinwheel, sensory items, and regulation guide.
Parent Starter Guide Digital guidebook with the core framework and 10 activities to try. $19
Learn the framework
Parent Starter Guide - $19
Digital guidebook with the core identity first approach and 10 activities to practice. Shows you how to respond in ways that build voice instead of stopping behavior.
Who It's For
Families who want to try before committing. Parents who already have some SEL tools and need specific pieces. Anyone who learns best by starting small and building up.
Not sure which kit is right for you?
Every kit teaches the same identity first skills. Choose based on how you want to start.
I want everything ready to use
You want to start practicing identity-first parenting today without assembly or prep work.
I like hands-on projects
You enjoy creating tools yourself and want to save money while getting the complete framework.
I want to start with one tool
You prefer to test one piece first or you already have some SEL tools and need specific additions.
A closer look at the tools
The Emotion Flashcards
Description: Sized for little hands with clear feelings and body cues. Kids learn to match what they see on the card to what they feel in their body.
The Parent Guidebook
Description: 60+ pages of how to use every tool in real moments. Explains why each piece matters and how it builds identity.
The Mood Board
Description: Visual tool with a moveable strip that shows kids how regulation works. They see themselves move from overwhelmed to calm in real time.
Activity Curriculum
Description: Weekly themes organized by age. Shows you exactly what to practice and when. Takes the guesswork out.
Calming Tools
Description: Breathing ball, sensory items and self regulation support. Kids practice what helps their body calm down.
Visual Routine Tools
Description: Help kids anticipate transitions and advocate for themselves during daily moments like bedtime and leaving the park.
Questions about the kits
What ages are these kits designed for?
Our SEL kits are designed for children ages 2-5, but activities can be adapted for different developmental stages. Younger children (18-24 months) benefit from simple emotion identification, while older children (4-5 years) can engage with more complex emotional concepts and self-regulation strategies.
Can siblings share one kit?
Absolutely! Our kits are perfect for families with multiple children. The activities can be adapted for different ages, and siblings often learn better together. Many families find that older children enjoy helping younger ones with the activities, creating wonderful bonding moments.
How much time do I need to use these daily?
Just 5-10 minutes a day makes a difference! Our activities are designed to fit into your existing routines— during meals, car rides, or bedtime. You don't need to set aside special "SEL time" to see results.
What's your return policy and shipping info?
Physical kits ship within 7 business days with free shipping on orders over $50. Digital kits are delivered instantly via email. We offer a 30-day satisfaction guarantee—if you're not happy, we'll make it right!
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